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But Then – It Is Well, Is It Not?

 

The thing about clichés is; they’re often true.

One very annoying thing; cliché if you will, people say when things go wrong is ‘it is well’.

Trust me; I know how annoying that shit is. Here I am, tearing my eyes up over the loss of someone who gave me life and gave my life meaning – and all your tired ass can say is ‘it is well.

Educate me, how the fuck is it well?!

I know how you feel.

I also know that, for the most part people who say that shit mean well. They just don’t know the proper way to say what they want to say.

Okay, how about we do it like this – what if instead of saying ‘it is well’ they said ‘and this too shall pass’?

Feel me now?

As different as both phrases look, essentially they’re saying the same thing – no matter what is happening to you, it will pass. One way or another, it will.

Think about it. Someone has just been diagnosed with Type A Cancer – the type that cannot be cured, fuck chemo. Their world comes crashing; they die before their due date.

Who can blame them?

However, this person is in a unique position; they possess a knowledge most of us will never have; they have an idea of when they’re going to die.

Do you have any idea how powerful that makes them? They can do things the rest of us are without fear of consequence; they have nothing to lose anymore. The worst has already happened.

Their fates are sealed. ‘And this too shall pass’.

Getting the picture? I’m not trying to make light of whatever anyone is going through; and sometimes, all we want is silence instead of lame attempts at consolation. However, reality is reality is probably the most subjective thing on this side of things –

It depends on how you look at it.

Everything that has a beginning has an end. If there’s any certainty, it is that. You’ve heard the one about ‘not living seriously because none of us are getting out alive’, right?

Right.

I remember something I shared in a conversation; ‘Death has been around the longest, yet we’re still not used to it’. An unfortunate truth – but true nonetheless. And if we know, death is certain, why don’t we spend each day living, knowing what we know?

Sometimes, I feel like this life – this entire existence is purposeless. Sometimes, I wonder why I’m here, why I don’t just take a cold drink of something hot and end the freaking thing. Sometimes I wonder…what exactly I’m here for.

Sometimes I can’t figure out what the next thing is. Funny, I know.

You know what though?

Those moments of doubts are just part of the whole process. I mean, to create anything there has to be moments of doubts, moments in which you question if it’s going to work or if you’re just wasting your time. How else do you get through times less that but by stiffening your spine, squaring your shoulders and telling yourself ‘it is well’?

How else?

I assure you – everything you’re worrying about or obsessing over will soon be over. Sooner OR later. Everything; including life itself, has an expiry date. We’re all just winding down. And since they say ‘today is the tomorrow you prayed/worked for yesterday’, does it not make sense to realize that – everything will; sooner or later become history?

No matter what it is, it’ll be over soon.

So – believe them when they say; ‘It Is Well’.

Because. It really is.

 

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