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I’m about to share some stuff that has been on my mind for a minute. Truth is, I’m usually on the forefront of the ‘Not All Men’ argument – however, I understand there’s a time and place for everything. And really?



Shouldn’t we have some sense by now?

When you read stuff like this, you see why shit like #MenAreScum are popular.

I mean, seriously. It’s 20-fucking-18 already. And people who think like this still exist? ‘What was she wearing’? Is that the facking point? ‘She should have gone with a guy’ So. Only women with male escorts should be safe?! Do you fucking hear yourselves?!

Really. This shit has to stop. We need to be better. We need to do better. Women deserve better from us. Saddest thing is, I’m sure you guys believe in the superiority of the male. And you expect a woman to submit – to your kind of thinking?

I’ll let you in on a secret; there are some ways women dress I don’t like; there are things females wear I am not comfortable with. However, I’m a law unto myself. After all, I am ‘Seun Odukoya’ not ‘Commissioner In Charge of Skirt/Blouse Length’.

Note the use of words. ‘Don’t like’ not ‘wrong’.

I have NO right to impose my likes/dislikes on ANYONE. And it sure as hell none of my business what someone decides to put on they body. I don’t like, I look away. It’s not illegal yet.

All this ‘What was she wearing’ shit has to stop. For fuck’s sake, that shit is so 1938. Grow the fuck up. Man the fuck up. Yeah I said it. Be responsible. Equality or no, people look up to us.

We’re fathers. Brothers. Sons. Sons-in-law. We have a responsibility. Again, I say we men have to be better. We have to do better. Women deserve better.

#ReceiveSense #ItsANewDay #ResponsibleMenAndWomenHere


8 responses

  1. Hear ye! Hear ye!
    Seun has said it in accents clear and still. Let us all be guided accordingly.

    December 18, 2017 at 4:36 pm

  2. Bro! You have said it all.
    Men really need to receive sense.
    If possible gather all the men, camp them on a remote island for a month and teach them to receive sense.
    Then when a male child is 5 years, to be enrolled in compulsory one year courses which will be a prerequisite for advancement in school.
    Men really need to receive sense.
    There is absolutely NO reason to fondle a female or touch her against her will not to talk of sexual intercourse.
    Nothing excuses sexual harassment, assault or rape

    December 18, 2017 at 6:01 pm

    • As in…

      Real talk my guy!!! Thanks!

      December 20, 2017 at 5:29 pm

  3. Preach…

    December 18, 2017 at 6:45 pm

  4. It’s so sad…

    December 27, 2017 at 5:47 pm

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